据说,一个人可以没有很多的东西但绝对不能没有"信念"..
信念可以来自亲情,友情,爱情等等等..一个有信念的人会活得很精彩...
一个失去信念的人就会觉得这是一个很灰暗的世界...甚至没有任何的意志再活下去..
据说,有一个尽忠尽职的警察,在一次逮捕枪匪时候被凶悍的枪匪伤及了一只眼睛与一之脚.那只眼瞎了,那只脚跛了.他很气,甚至下定决心要将那枪匪绳之以法.十年后,他终于逮到了那枪匪.那警察也得到英勇奖.但他还是选择了自尽!他活了后十年,他唯一的心愿就是将那伤他的枪匪绳之以法..在他逮到那枪匪后,他什么心愿也了了.
信念是不是真的会让一个人选择活下去还是选择结束他的生命?
双鱼的信念呢?她曾经也有所谓的信念..现在呢?以下的短片还可以是双鱼现在的信念吗?(帮助他们,让他们有更好的生活,因为他们值得拥有!)
Tuesday, March 31, 2009
Saturday, March 28, 2009
可不可以...
致我最要好的朋友，
可不可以不再想念你??
可不可以不要再给我冷冷的回应??
如果,没有我的打扰,你会过得更快乐... 那么就要好好的过!你会的,对吧？！
祝福你! "我最幸福的事是你当过我的天使＂．．．
可不可以不再想念你??
可不可以不要再给我冷冷的回应??
如果,没有我的打扰,你会过得更快乐... 那么就要好好的过!你会的,对吧？！
祝福你! "我最幸福的事是你当过我的天使＂．．．
我的朋友
致双鱼的朋友,
祝福你们找到属于你们的天空..
记得要幸福!双鱼能做的就只能默默祝福你了.记得要幸福!
如果没有联络你,是因为不想打扰你...
如果没有联络你,也是因为想让你有机会想想双鱼...
记得 要幸福! ^^
祝福你们找到属于你们的天空..
记得要幸福!双鱼能做的就只能默默祝福你了.记得要幸福!
如果没有联络你,是因为不想打扰你...
如果没有联络你,也是因为想让你有机会想想双鱼...
记得 要幸福! ^^
Never mind you just go away
这些年来 不明白 我如何忍受过来 一场期待 一片空白 人的心就是这样狠起来 我们的恋爱如果不失败 我们怎么会有这么成功的分开 never mind you just go away 你以为我一定后悔 已经有了最坏的准备 走了这步就举手不悔 never mind you just go away 你以为我就会流泪 我会不会(如果我不会)你配不配(你会不会) 勉强相爱 就像骨牌 守不住 倒不如倒的精采 lt's okay l'm okay 我不用你 陪你不要误会 我只是有点累 却没时间崩溃
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S.H.E 就要解散了..怎么办? 她们陪我那么久了..往后的日子没有了她们的陪伴,双鱼又要更寂寞了.
但更希望的是她们能够找到属于她们自己的天空...
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S.H.E 就要解散了..怎么办? 她们陪我那么久了..往后的日子没有了她们的陪伴,双鱼又要更寂寞了.
但更希望的是她们能够找到属于她们自己的天空...
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Thursday, March 26, 2009
--laughing oUt lOud--
fInally, I found this picture.. hoooho.. I miss this picture so much.. ^^
失落了,还是得像这可爱小猫这样的笑... 不要像后面那只,这样的愁眉苦脸了.笑~ 很容易而已... 嘴角两边轻轻上扬就可以了... 绝对不会很难!
尝试着~~
Monday, March 23, 2009
Sunday, March 22, 2009
what is the mEaning of FrIENdsHip?
Until today, I am still struggling to find out what is the meaning of fRiendship..
Becoz of many unfavourable things happened within these few years, I lost many things and I coundnt ensure the meaning of FRIENDSHIp. Friendship is unlike romantic relationship.. unlike kinship.. It is much more compLicated compare to others relationship..
I dont know WHO AM I, am I honest to myself and others? or I just PretenDing? I cannot recognized the Me right now!! What mAkes me to become like this? Environment + myself?? i Think so.. I did hate those who hurt me before.. but I just know that, i should forGive you! because I want you to be my friend not enEmy. so I try my beSt to fOrgive. and bear in mInd, plEase giVe urself some space to run away. dOnt keePs prOvoking or irRespect others or make someone no choice to HIT yOu back! that time you will get hUrt!
aNd, when I tell You the truth, wIll yoU willing to lIsten? wIll you telL me the trUth as welL? or U started to kEep everything to You and Others and without letTing me to know It?
saw someone posting "Friendship is so fRagile". Is this tRue? I am aGree with it. fRom another person told me "If friendship is broken, You will never fInd a neW one". all is tRue.
I doNt know the reAl Meaning of FRIENDSHIP...
but i found this :
What is friendship? What is the meaning of this relationship? We have often sought answers to these questions, yet we have never come up with an adequate answer. This is because this relationship is an amalgamation of beautiful and complex feelings, which may not often be described in words. Defining a relationship is never easy, as there are so many facets to it. However we don't need a bunch of words to make us realize the deep meaning of friendship.
According to George Elliot "Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words."
This heartwarming expression captures the essence of friendship. When two people share a strong bond of mutual understanding, respect and love it lays the foundation stone for an everlasting friendship. This bond just gets stronger with time; the trust between the two people grows and so does the attachment. This is the beauty of the relationship and is the essential meaning of friendship.
Being friends means being there for each other at all times, whether it's good or bad. A friend needs to be very understanding and give each other the benefit of the doubt. Ideally the meaning of friendship is sharing unconditional love for each other. However this is not an ideal world; therefore some form of expectations are allowed, but that has a limit too. The purpose and meaning of friendship is to make life's burdens lighter for our friends and not make them heavier. The Roman thinker Cicero said "Friendship makes prosperity brighter, while it lightens adversity by sharing its griefs and anxieties."
Searching for the meaning of friendship has always been a burning question. However as soon as we meet our friends all these questions get answered automatically. The answer to what is the meaning of friendship lies within our hearts, because true friendship can only be felt, and not expressed. Something so pure and essential is not always visible to the eye, but is felt by the heart.
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There is no greater blessingthan an understanding friend,who's there intimes of troubleand on whom we can depend.
A friend who knows our every mood And brightens cloudy days,One who's slow to criticizeBut quick to offer praise.
~By Rag.~
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wHo wIll be the real fRiend? I dont kNow.. I will jUst let the TIME to Prove it..
Becoz of many unfavourable things happened within these few years, I lost many things and I coundnt ensure the meaning of FRIENDSHIp. Friendship is unlike romantic relationship.. unlike kinship.. It is much more compLicated compare to others relationship..
I dont know WHO AM I, am I honest to myself and others? or I just PretenDing? I cannot recognized the Me right now!! What mAkes me to become like this? Environment + myself?? i Think so.. I did hate those who hurt me before.. but I just know that, i should forGive you! because I want you to be my friend not enEmy. so I try my beSt to fOrgive. and bear in mInd, plEase giVe urself some space to run away. dOnt keePs prOvoking or irRespect others or make someone no choice to HIT yOu back! that time you will get hUrt!
aNd, when I tell You the truth, wIll yoU willing to lIsten? wIll you telL me the trUth as welL? or U started to kEep everything to You and Others and without letTing me to know It?
saw someone posting "Friendship is so fRagile". Is this tRue? I am aGree with it. fRom another person told me "If friendship is broken, You will never fInd a neW one". all is tRue.
I doNt know the reAl Meaning of FRIENDSHIP...
but i found this :
What is friendship? What is the meaning of this relationship? We have often sought answers to these questions, yet we have never come up with an adequate answer. This is because this relationship is an amalgamation of beautiful and complex feelings, which may not often be described in words. Defining a relationship is never easy, as there are so many facets to it. However we don't need a bunch of words to make us realize the deep meaning of friendship.
According to George Elliot "Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words."
This heartwarming expression captures the essence of friendship. When two people share a strong bond of mutual understanding, respect and love it lays the foundation stone for an everlasting friendship. This bond just gets stronger with time; the trust between the two people grows and so does the attachment. This is the beauty of the relationship and is the essential meaning of friendship.
Being friends means being there for each other at all times, whether it's good or bad. A friend needs to be very understanding and give each other the benefit of the doubt. Ideally the meaning of friendship is sharing unconditional love for each other. However this is not an ideal world; therefore some form of expectations are allowed, but that has a limit too. The purpose and meaning of friendship is to make life's burdens lighter for our friends and not make them heavier. The Roman thinker Cicero said "Friendship makes prosperity brighter, while it lightens adversity by sharing its griefs and anxieties."
Searching for the meaning of friendship has always been a burning question. However as soon as we meet our friends all these questions get answered automatically. The answer to what is the meaning of friendship lies within our hearts, because true friendship can only be felt, and not expressed. Something so pure and essential is not always visible to the eye, but is felt by the heart.
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There is no greater blessingthan an understanding friend,who's there intimes of troubleand on whom we can depend.
A friend who knows our every mood And brightens cloudy days,One who's slow to criticizeBut quick to offer praise.
~By Rag.~
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wHo wIll be the real fRiend? I dont kNow.. I will jUst let the TIME to Prove it..
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
~sOme meMories with y.b.t.~
sans elle, cours de français est ennuyeux
Elle est mon ange qui me font toujours rire
J'ai été à chaque fois, elle sera là et me font rire
Je m'ennuie de la journée, nous sommes en cours de français l'année dernière
Je m'ennuie de la journée, nous avons tous les deux avoir le dîner, le déjeuner ou le petit déjeuner ensemble
Je m'ennuie de la journée avec vous
Je pensais que je peux vivre sans toi
Mais en réalité, je ne peux pas vivre sans toi
Vous avez partagé les plus belles chansons avec moi
Vous partagez avec moi beaucoup de choses
Tu me manques
Désolé, Je cours loin de vous
Je veux juste apprendre à vivre sans toi
la vie est ennuyeuse sans vous
Vous êtes l'un de mes anges
Je t'aime beaucoup, une sœur!
~Merci beaucoup, sœur ~
Elle est mon ange qui me font toujours rire
J'ai été à chaque fois, elle sera là et me font rire
Je m'ennuie de la journée, nous sommes en cours de français l'année dernière
Je m'ennuie de la journée, nous avons tous les deux avoir le dîner, le déjeuner ou le petit déjeuner ensemble
Je m'ennuie de la journée avec vous
Je pensais que je peux vivre sans toi
Mais en réalité, je ne peux pas vivre sans toi
Vous avez partagé les plus belles chansons avec moi
Vous partagez avec moi beaucoup de choses
Tu me manques
Désolé, Je cours loin de vous
Je veux juste apprendre à vivre sans toi
la vie est ennuyeuse sans vous
Vous êtes l'un de mes anges
Je t'aime beaucoup, une sœur!
~Merci beaucoup, sœur ~
Monday, March 16, 2009
Sunday, March 15, 2009
~无题~
原来~~
电脑成为我的死党了..
网上游戏成为我的好朋友了...
部落格,博客成为自己最好的倾听者..
课外书成为我空闲时间的朋友了...
屋前的那棵树成为我的陪伴者..
楼下的那只猫成为我的安慰者...
身边的人群成为我生命的威胁者...
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Friday, March 13, 2009
~mIssing sweet hOme~
unoe manque d'accueil~~ Unoe miss home
Je veux retourner à la maison... :( I want to go home
Unoe manquez membres de la famille ~~ Unoe miss her family members
Unoe manquez La cuisine de grand-mère~~ Unoe miss her grandma's cooking
Unoe manquez amis~~ Unoe miss all her friends..
-黑暗面-
因为朋友这两个字,让自己受了这样的待遇...
当初因为你和他之间发生了些事情,所以来找我
在之前,我已经和你们说好了,我想要一个人的空间..
结果,因为你们,所以,我失去了个人空间...
因为朋友一场,而且我又不懂得怎么推辞朋友的要求...
今天,在讨论的当儿,你问了一道难回答的问题.无意识中还是老实的回答了.虽然,不太直接,但还是听得很明白的!
为什么?又要因为朋友两个字,而再次委屈自己?
同样的价钱,获得的却是两样不一样的东西..或许,你们会说我很自私,但你们呢???
同样的价钱,我陪上了我的精神!我真的就快要崩溃了!
亲人,就要我再忍一年半载... 你们会开心因为没有陌生人的加入...
而且一直说着说那的... 都是骗人的吧?!
而我呢??? 我呢??? 因为朋友,我算了..我忍了... 好累....真的很累!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
~凌晨时分~
应该做功课的,但是因为很做得很闷... 闷得发疯.. 闷得很想大喊几声... 闷得... ...
在这时刻,还没睡的双鱼又没有朋友聊天的双鱼是闷的!
没有人再像以前那样陪伴聊天,熬夜到天亮了... ... 那样的回忆是美丽的..:D
夜深人静的夜里,少了知心朋友陪伴倒有点寂寞了... ..
一个人哼着喇叭里传出来的歌~~~ 就这样过着... ...
Sunday, March 8, 2009
Thursday, March 5, 2009
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
曙光+希望
这是在2006年某天某月摄的.偶然在宿舍窗外发现这样的景象..当一个人陷入黑暗世界的时候,真的会有象征希望的曙光出现吗?
如果你相信有,就会有..
正在努力地寻找着黑暗中的曙光... 希望似渺茫.. 但仍然带着期待的心情去寻找它..
*请不要丢下我不管!我真的需要你!!!* :'(
-------------------------------------现在的心情七上八下的... 没能平静下来~
选择~该怎么和你成为好朋友?!
思绪~该怎么让你乖乖听话?!
我爱的人~该怎么和你再更靠近些?!
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我不累,是让自己更有活力些...
是我想太多,是安慰自己的理由...
我不介意,是因为不想为难你...
我说不爱你了,是为了还你自由,让你更快乐...
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我就像只小小鸟,想飞得更高,更远... 但却怎么也做不到...
我就像架机器,任你摆步...
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:'(
Sunday, March 1, 2009
~我钻!钻!钻! & tHink too mUch ~
很多时候,或许,双鱼会给身边的友人带来很理性,很正面想法的话.但可惜的是,在很多时候,双鱼一直都在钻牛角尖! 钻到头破血流还再钻!明明知道会痛但就是还再那里钻!
明明知道很痛了,还不快点跑!而是停在那里一直钻!钻!钻!双鱼到底是不是白痴啊?! 的确是个白痴中的白痴!
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从一篇文章读到关于trauma(恐惧症)的,researchers 拿动物和人类来做实验!原来人类会有那么多的心理病是因为人类想太多!好笑吧?! 因为想太多,所以才有那么多的心理病!精神分裂症...posttraumatic stress disorder, 压力, mood disorder... ... ...
人类!别想那么多了!也别比较那么多了!人比人,气死人!
明明知道很痛了,还不快点跑!而是停在那里一直钻!钻!钻!双鱼到底是不是白痴啊?! 的确是个白痴中的白痴!
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从一篇文章读到关于trauma(恐惧症)的,researchers 拿动物和人类来做实验!原来人类会有那么多的心理病是因为人类想太多!好笑吧?! 因为想太多,所以才有那么多的心理病!精神分裂症...posttraumatic stress disorder, 压力, mood disorder... ... ...
人类!别想那么多了!也别比较那么多了!人比人,气死人!
~cham~惨!
眼看希望就要破灭的时候到底有什么感觉?
yan kan xi wang jiu yao po mie de shi hou dao di you shen me gan jue
想大大声的喊? 还是想痛快的哭?
xiang da da sheng de han? hai shi xiang tong kuai de ku?
怎么办?希望越来越渺茫了!等了这么久,两年!两年哪!为什么?
zen me ban? xi wang yue lai yue miao mang le! deng le zhe me jiu, liang nian! liang nian na! wei shen me?
还是该忍着希望破灭的那种感觉?静静的忍下?
hai shi gai ren zhe xi wang po mie de gan jue? jing jing de ren xia?
再忍一年.不长,就一年!
zai ren yi nian. bu chang, jiu yi nian!
省了你们的烦恼,换来了双鱼的"精神创伤"!谁该负责?!
sheng le ni men de fan nao, huan lai le shuang yu de jing shen chuang shang! shui gai fu ze?!
是你?你?你?你?还是双鱼?
shi ni ? ni? ni? ni? hai shi shuang yu?
谁来告诉双鱼该怎么做?
shui lai gao su shuang yu gai zen me zuo?
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伤~伤~伤~
sad~sad~sad ):
yan kan xi wang jiu yao po mie de shi hou dao di you shen me gan jue
想大大声的喊? 还是想痛快的哭?
xiang da da sheng de han? hai shi xiang tong kuai de ku?
怎么办?希望越来越渺茫了!等了这么久,两年!两年哪!为什么?
zen me ban? xi wang yue lai yue miao mang le! deng le zhe me jiu, liang nian! liang nian na! wei shen me?
还是该忍着希望破灭的那种感觉?静静的忍下?
hai shi gai ren zhe xi wang po mie de gan jue? jing jing de ren xia?
再忍一年.不长,就一年!
zai ren yi nian. bu chang, jiu yi nian!
省了你们的烦恼,换来了双鱼的"精神创伤"!谁该负责?!
sheng le ni men de fan nao, huan lai le shuang yu de jing shen chuang shang! shui gai fu ze?!
是你?你?你?你?还是双鱼?
shi ni ? ni? ni? ni? hai shi shuang yu?
谁来告诉双鱼该怎么做?
shui lai gao su shuang yu gai zen me zuo?
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伤~伤~伤~
sad~sad~sad ):
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