what is the mEaning of FrIENdsHip?

Until today, I am still struggling to find out what is the meaning of fRiendship..

Becoz of many unfavourable things happened within these few years, I lost many things and I coundnt ensure the meaning of FRIENDSHIp. Friendship is unlike romantic relationship.. unlike kinship.. It is much more compLicated compare to others relationship..

I dont know WHO AM I, am I honest to myself and others? or I just PretenDing? I cannot recognized the Me right now!! What mAkes me to become like this? Environment + myself?? i Think so.. I did hate those who hurt me before.. but I just know that, i should forGive you! because I want you to be my friend not enEmy. so I try my beSt to fOrgive. and bear in mInd, plEase giVe urself some space to run away. dOnt keePs prOvoking or irRespect others or make someone no choice to HIT yOu back! that time you will get hUrt!

aNd, when I tell You the truth, wIll yoU willing to lIsten? wIll you telL me the trUth as welL? or U started to kEep everything to You and Others and without letTing me to know It?

saw someone posting "Friendship is so fRagile". Is this tRue? I am aGree with it. fRom another person told me "If friendship is broken, You will never fInd a neW one". all is tRue.

I doNt know the reAl Meaning of FRIENDSHIP...

but i found this :

What is friendship? What is the meaning of this relationship? We have often sought answers to these questions, yet we have never come up with an adequate answer. This is because this relationship is an amalgamation of beautiful and complex feelings, which may not often be described in words. Defining a relationship is never easy, as there are so many facets to it. However we don't need a bunch of words to make us realize the deep meaning of friendship.

According to George Elliot "Friendship is the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person, having neither to weigh thoughts nor measure words."

This heartwarming expression captures the essence of friendship. When two people share a strong bond of mutual understanding, respect and love it lays the foundation stone for an everlasting friendship. This bond just gets stronger with time; the trust between the two people grows and so does the attachment. This is the beauty of the relationship and is the essential meaning of friendship.

Being friends means being there for each other at all times, whether it's good or bad. A friend needs to be very understanding and give each other the benefit of the doubt. Ideally the meaning of friendship is sharing unconditional love for each other. However this is not an ideal world; therefore some form of expectations are allowed, but that has a limit too. The purpose and meaning of friendship is to make life's burdens lighter for our friends and not make them heavier. The Roman thinker Cicero said "Friendship makes prosperity brighter, while it lightens adversity by sharing its griefs and anxieties."

Searching for the meaning of friendship has always been a burning question. However as soon as we meet our friends all these questions get answered automatically. The answer to what is the meaning of friendship lies within our hearts, because true friendship can only be felt, and not expressed. Something so pure and essential is not always visible to the eye, but is felt by the heart.
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There is no greater blessingthan an understanding friend,who's there intimes of troubleand on whom we can depend.

A friend who knows our every mood And brightens cloudy days,One who's slow to criticizeBut quick to offer praise.

~By Rag.~
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wHo wIll be the real fRiend? I dont kNow.. I will jUst let the TIME to Prove it..